Want to have an easy life? Work hard. Want to tell someone to improve? Tell them they suck. Want to see someone disrespect money? Give them all the money in the world. Want to see someone do good? Let them go down the worst road possible in life and let them see where that takes them. Want to see your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you? Cling to them every hour of every day.
The secret of life is that things lead to their opposites.