Do not hate the other. They are not your enemy. Yes, they anger you and mock you, and they continually get in the way of your self improvement, but they are not your real enemy.
And do not hate yourself. You are not your enemy. Yes, you’re hypocritical at best, a straight out liar at worst, and yes, you have many flaws that hinder you so, but you are not your real enemy.
The real enemy, in terms of human progress, is social conventionality.
Conformity, that’s the real enemy.
And that’s the enemy you should be fighting with every last fiber of your being.