My dear,
Someone asked me the other day if men get equally objectified as women do. I practically laughed for ten minutes straight. Of course they do!
Men look at women as sex objects. Women look at men as success objects.

This is the way evolution has made us. Men judge women and look for the best ones to bear their children, and women judge men and look for the best ones to support them while they bear their children. This stuff is in our makeup. It’s hardwired. But a few of us beat our wiring from time to time.

Falsely yours,
Warren Thomas Farrell