I found that if you love life, life will love you back.
If you don’t go around complaining about how life could have dealt you a better hand, how others have more than you, and how you’ve been treated unfairly, life will respond accordingly.
Life gives those who appreciate more to appreciate (and those who complain, more to complain about). Life just reciprocates what you put into it, it’s not that hard to figure out. Love, and you shall be loved. Give and you shall receive.